Diamonds against Black Velvet
Your beauty should not come from outward
adornment, such as braided hair and the
wearing of gold jewelry. Instead, it should be
that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle
quiet spirit, which is of great worth in GodĀfs sight.
1 Peter 3:3,4
Charles Spurgeon, the great English preacher, once said when a jeweler shows his best diamonds he sets them against a black velvet backdrop. The contrast of the jewels against the dark velvet brings out the luster.
Jim Cymbala, pastor of the
Cymbala should know a lot about that. He established a church in an old rundown building in one of
What Cymbala did was go into that neighborhood which was as dark as black velvet. It was a hopeless and foreboding impossible task he faced in a section of town rampant with male and female prostitution, drugs of all kinds, alcoholics, homeless. Just about every life-altering problem was represented there.
The way they accomplished this remarkable growth was by just showing love to those who were starved for love. To those folks Brooklyn Tabernacle was a "parkling diamond against the blackness of their life situations."
One person who I think sparkles like a diamond against black velvet is a football coach, Bobby Bowden of
Once at a Powerpoint Luncheon, a Christian Business Persons group that meets once a month for lunch at the
Coach Bowden said he writes a letter to the parents of his incoming players and says that with their permission he will be taking their son to church, he will be sharing scriptures with the players, he will be praying with the players, and they will be having daily devotions. He then asks the parents if they have any problem with that. He said only 2 player's parents in 40 years have said "no, don't include my son." He said in those cases he thinks those parents were Christians, but didn't want the boys converted away from their denomination. Bowden says, that's why he doesn't take them to his home church, lest anyone think he is drumming up business---so to speak for his own church. Actually, he is drumming up business for the Lord. Yes, I'd say Coach Bowden is a sparkling diamond against a black velvet backdrop.
A lady in one of the Bible studies I taught was flying to
You know what offends me? A Christian wanting to have access to a Bible and not being able to because it might offend somebody. Wasn't this country founded on the principle of religious freedom?
Our pastor Bob Tindale talked, in a sermon, about going to hear a fellow preach who and been imprisoned and tortured for his belief in God. He said that as degrading and difficult as it was, he actually had been able to show love for those who tortured him. Bob said he was able to talk to the man after the sermon and asked him how he was able to do that. The man said, "Have you ever stepped on a rose? If you had you would notice when the rose is crushed there is a sweet smell that escapes. In other words, the rose is as beautiful inside as it is outside. The way I was able to love my tormentors was by filling myself with God. When you are completely filled inside with God's love, you become a beautiful person inside. Then, what comes out of you in situations with others is going to be goodness. You will be like a sparkling diamond. You'll be able to soar like an eagle even amongst the turkeys
You know it really doesn't cost a bit more to be nice than it does to be grumpy, or mean-spirited. It is a matter of choice. I think we get in ruts and fall into routines we can become so
self-absorbed that we sometimes don't give ourselves a chance to be the sparkling diamond.
One thing I have been really trying to do lately and have had some success, as minimal as it might be at this point, is try to always look for a positive among the negatives. There are so many negatives out there and so many negative people..that it's tough. Somebody the other day was complaining and I figured I'd try my old "be positive approach" and I said, "Well, I think we could find something positive in that. She said, "What do you mean. I said, "It's my new approach, I'm going to try to make positives out of negatives. Her answer was, "I think I'll throw up."
So you see, it ain't easy to be a sparkling diamond against a black velvet backdrop. Sometimes that backdrop threatens to cover over the sparkle of the diamond.
But, I just believe if we really work on discerning God's Will in all things and concentrate on making the inner self asa thing of beautywe will sparkle like diamonds on black velvet.
Monday Prayer: Lord help us fill our lives with the beauty of your love so we will, indeed, stand out like a diamond on a black velvet cloth. Amen!
Author's note: Make an extra effort this week to look for the positives in every situation. You may experience some frustration, but notice how many negatives you are able to turn in your favor. Have a great week.